“Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” – Jack Canfield
Now, don’t get me wrong, fear is a necessary emotion. But it should be used when needed and then put away.
For example, you should be fearful of a hot stove so that you don’t get burned.
And, you shouldn’t stand too close to a ledge, for fear that you may fall.
The truth is, many of us hold on to fear and worry like it’s some sort of security blanket that gives us the ok not to do the things that we really desire.
I could go on, but my point is…many of us are just too accustomed to its convenience in our lives.
We do things like stay at a dead-end job for years on end because we feel that we won’t find another one that will satisfy our needs.
And even though we may be in an unhealthy relationship, we have a fear of being alone or feel that we just don’t deserve to be happy.
So, we stay out of comfort, and fear that we can’t do any better.
Afterall, we already know what we’re dealing with, right?
Often times we fail to take that leap of faith to either salvage what we have or simply move on, out of comfort.
A major contributor to these fearful emotions has to do with our surroundings. Social media, news media, and negative talk from people who are around us can bring us down and keep us stagnant.
The Power of Letting Go of Fear
It is important to know that living with constant fear can cause disease in the body.
Chronic worry can eventually trigger the body into producing excess cortisol.
According to Dr. Travis Stork, M.D., from “The Drs.” television show, excessive cortisol can cause high blood pressure, obesity, and lead to type 2 diabetes.
You should also make note that fear is an emotion that is usually linked to the unknown.
Many times, we are afraid of things that haven’t even happened yet.
Unfortunately, these ill feelings can turn something that can potentially be good for us into something bad, emotionally.
But letting go, moving past it, and pushing through is a great way to start the healing process.
There truly is power in letting go and having the faith to fulfill our desires.
So why not start living better, being healthier and being stronger?
7 Ways to Free Yourself
Worrying and being fearful of situations in your life leads to stress, anxiety, and more worry and fear.
As we know, this offers no assistance whatsoever to what we may be dealing with. Instead of casting these types of emotions, pray.
When you pray, be fervent and specific of a positive outcome, no matter what.
Ask for the success of that job promotion, blessings for safe travel over your trip or peace and love in your home.
Regardless to what it is, pray and hand it over to God first.
2. Make The Decision
Decide that you are going to change your situation. It doesn’t matter if you want to change jobs, write a book, or lose 20 pounds.
This may mean that you need to take a course to sharpen your skills or network with a new set of people to help you in your advancement.
But whatever it is, go ahead and move forward.
Make the decision to taking the first steps in completing whatever it is that you wish to accomplish, change, or eliminate.
3. Update Your Circle
We’d like to think that the people that are closest to us will be there to celebrate our decisions and help us through our fears of stepping out on faith. But this is not always the case.
You may find that you need to change your immediate circle if those around you offer discouragement.
This may be hard to do at first, but necessary. If growth is what you need, it may be time to stay away from the naysayers.
Instead, surround yourself with people who are in support of what you are trying to accomplish.
Those who are not, really should be kept at a distance regarding your journey.
4. Move In Silence
If you have a goal that you would like to achieve, you may not want to speak about it to anyone that doesn’t have a definite need to know.
Keep in mind that it isn’t necessary to announce to everyone what you are up to. You’d be surprised at the lengths that others would go to hinder you from your accomplishments.
Also, this offers you the ability to achieve what is needed without unnecessary distractions. Move in silence and focus on your tasks.
5. Break The Monotony
It is true that we are creatures of habit. We drive the same routes, hang out with the same people and do the same things day in and day out.
Maybe its time to shake it up a bit. Do things that encourage and require you to change such as joining a book club or taking up a new sport.
This can help you ease into changing old habits while forming new ones.
6. Write Out A Plan
Writing out your plans is a great way to log what you wish to achieve. Having goals written down on paper helps as a guide while giving great perspective.
Completely a task and then marking it off can be rewarding and gives a great sense of accomplishment.
Going through the plan will aid in keeping you on track and bringing your dreams to life.
7. Learn To Be Uncomfortable
This is probably one of the main reasons why people don’t pursue things that they wish to accomplish. They will be pulled out of there comfort zone, possibly not succeed, or perhaps come up against some challenges that they don’t like.
Something to make note of is that doing the same things is very comfortable, but it doesn’t do anything for your personal growth and will keep you in the same spot.
Instead of worrying about what could happen if you don’t achieve your goals, get excited about what could happen if you do.
Remember to push through and never give up on your dreams.